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guest1  Join Date:29 April 2010
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29 Apr 2010 05:53 PM
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Hello ,
i am 28 yrs old married for the last 3 years and have a 2 year old
son.I come from a very respectable and rich family.My marriage is an
arranged one and it took place in one the best place in chennai.My
husband
come from a middle class family and at the time of my wedding he was
working abroad so after my marriage i too went with him.we gave him rs
7
lakhs as dowry and all the amenties were given .I got concieved and
came
to my parents house for my delivery during my 8 th month.Till that
everything was going smooth between us .He came for my delivery and
stayed
with me for a month.before my delivery itself he started asking for
money
to do biz etc and whe i said i cant he started enquiring abt my jewels
etc not a single day would pass with out a fight for us .its very
difficult to understand his character immediately after the fight he
would
come and beg me or even sometimes fall at my feet then take me to some
mall etc but i always tought once a kid come he will be normal.after my
delivery i stayed at my parents house cause it was difficult to look
after him alone there.this was the time he started to change his
colour.although we had misunderstandings i never susspected him at
all.when i
was with him also he used to get a number of calls from girls which i
never suspected i always thot it was common when your in abroad.when i
was in india after my delivery he used to call me once a week and sms
me
regularly but as time went he started reducing the calls and sms.he
stoppen enquiring even about my son.i felt some thing is wrong and went
to
see wat is happening there.he introduced me to a muslim girl who is
divorcee and having two grown up children aged 15 and 10 yrs old as

The meantime when i was in india he started his own biz
which he didnt informe me at all.so where we go this lady also started
coming with us if she comes he will laugh and enjoy,if he takes me
alone
he will never open his mouth and will be very dull.once when we out for
dinner another friend mistook that lady as my husbands wife and started
talking to her i was standing next to her neither she nor my husband
open their mouth .when i was in india tese two were happily going
around
some of my relatives are there when they told me they saw my husband
with this lady i didnt susupect him at all. Above all my husband has
done
the sunnath operation which muslims normally muslims do .all these
things i never told my parents but one day i couldnt hide any more and
told
them everything even they were shocked and at first refused to beleive
it,but later when i told abt the operation they beleived and spk abt
this to him for that he told my parents that this operation is normally
done to prevent cancer.when all this was happening his visa got expired
and we came to india .he said he is not going to work any more and will
bo only biz and that only with that lady.he never cares for my son
once a big fight broke between us cause he was preparing to go the same
place where he was working but did not inform me at all.i told his
parents but they didnt bother at all they keep repeadetly saying that
their
son is very good and i am lying inspite of showing them all the
evidence.they are useless ppl cause if you give money they will do
anything and
never expect justice from them.It has been nearly 5 months i have
spoken to my husband i dont know where he is whether in india or
abroad.he
has not enquired even about my son.

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unknown  Join Date:29 April 2010
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29 Apr 2010 06:01 PM
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Sad to hear about the above content.Since you have young age better search for new life parter, but get a divoce from him, then search a new parter.if ur in chennai,consult some LADY advocate and tell her to file the petition and do the formalities,before that check wheather he is in india or abroad,and check where his parents, for filing the petition you need the residence address ,marriage photo and invition,if registerd marriage,keep copy of marriage certificate. you will get a divoce with in 6 mnths, court will provide a 6 months for fruitfull discussion, if not clear, you will get the divoce,for all you need is mony, it will expend about 10 to 14k in your problem. thanks well wisher

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charishma  Join Date:29 April 2010
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29 Apr 2010 06:01 PM
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dear friend, ur case is similar to mine. i thnk u wl have to move ahead with ur life givng it a new dimension; start afresh. get into a nice career , get divorce becos no point in living witha man who doesnt care for u n has extramarital afairs. steer clear of his shadows from ur life by geting a divorce n a hefty compensation n start afresh; bring out the hidden talent in u n rise n shine. when gad takes somethng away from it means something still better is waiting for u. concentrate on ur son. if possible get married again becos u need companion ship n get urself busy with a good career. tc bye.

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jasdeep  Join Date:29 April 2010
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29 Apr 2010 06:01 PM
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file a domestic violance case against him get all dowery back and give him divirce leave childrens with him

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nahsaurry9  Join Date:12 June 2010 | India
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12 Jun 2010 09:37 PM
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Hiya im fresh here, I came upon this site I have found It vastly useful and it has helped me out loads. I should be able to contribute and assist other people like it has helped me. Thank You, See You Around

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13 Jun 2010 01:07 AM
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What's Happening im fresh on here. I stumbled upon this site I find It vastly useful & it's helped me out tons. I should be able to give something back & aid others like it has helped me. Thank You, See Ya Around

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nahsaurry9  Join Date:12 June 2010 | India
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13 Jun 2010 08:11 PM
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What's Happening im fresh on here. I stumbled upon this site I find It amply useful and it's helped me out tons. I hope to give something back and assist others like it has helped me. Cheers, Catch You Later

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croxodonome4  Join Date:13 June 2010 | India
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14 Jun 2010 02:43 AM
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Hey i'm new here. I hit upon this site I find It exceedingly useful & it's helped me alot. I hope to give something back & guide other users like it has helped me. Thanks, See You Later.

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shahid  Join Date:14 June 2010 | India
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14 Jun 2010 04:13 AM
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contact me for any type of help

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croxodonome4  Join Date:13 June 2010 | India
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14 Jun 2010 04:45 AM
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Howdy i'm new here. I came upon this site I have found It exceedingly accessible & its helped me a great deal. I should be able to contribute and aid other users like it has helped me. Thank's, See Ya Later.

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bommayasamy  Join Date:14 June 2010 | India
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14 Jun 2010 03:03 PM
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hi sister dont worry ur all problems ill be clear soon.

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croxodonome5  Join Date:13 June 2010 | India
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15 Jun 2010 03:31 AM
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Whats's Up i am fresh on here. I came accross this chat board I have found It vastly accommodating and it's helped me out a great deal. I hope to give something back & guide other people like its helped me. Thanks, See Ya Around.

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croxodonome6  Join Date:15 June 2010 | India
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15 Jun 2010 09:51 PM
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Hi im new to this, I came accross this chat board I have found It absolutely accommodating & it's helped me loads. I should be able to contribute & aid others like it has helped me. Cheers all, See Ya Later.

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croxodonome6  Join Date:15 June 2010 | India
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16 Jun 2010 12:02 AM
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Good Day i'm fresh on here, I came accross this site I have found It amply accommodating & it's helped me a great deal. I hope to contribute and guide other users like it has helped me. Thanks, See You Around.

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croxodonome  Join Date:27 May 2010 | India
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16 Jun 2010 12:50 AM
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Good Day i'm new here. I came upon this website I find It positively useful and it's helped me a great deal. I hope to give something back & help other users like it has helped me. Thank You, See You Around


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