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Individual career is not important than caring for family. By nature woman is the builder of the family, man is the protector of the family. IF man provides, woman has to preserve it. God has given more patiency for woman to care for family, and more physical strength for man is to win bread by sweat. Woman's birth is the noblest, and it attains completeness if you become a homemaker. Know that a wise woman builds her house, but the foolish uproots it. Be aware that Certain individual thoughts can break marriage life. It is better to supress such dangerous individual passions, for happy marriage life.


If you want family, quit your pg, if you want pg, quit your family.

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In these modern days, you should some how manage both kids and job. thats how many women are doing and dealing with it. I knowyour family is not supporting, but inspite of that, I thionk you should continuew study. Otherwise you will regreat forever in your life. Definitely you will struggle for few days, then you will be all right. It si very imaprtnat for women to be financially independt nowadays.. Finally you are the one who has to make up your mind. these are all just people's suggestions. You cant completly rely on them.

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Hello Hufza, It's very sad to hear your situation. But want to ask you a simple Question?? Did you discuss about your further studies or carrier with your hubby before marriage? If so, you wouldn't be facing this problem. At this point what I can suggest you is, 1stly,take your husband out of the house and sit and talk peacefully with him when he is in a good mood.Try to explain him about your emotional dream or ambition (if you are particular about it) and then see the difference.I'm sure you'll definitely come up with a better solution.If not, just sacrifice your PG.I don't say you have to listen to your in laws but if it makes them and your hubby happy,then there is nothing wrong in doing it. Always remember one thing, If you do anything for yourself,it gives you only happiness but if you do anything for others,it gives you and the whole family,the peace of mind too.There is a great pleasure in sacrificing or doing something for others. So, its your turn to listen to your heart and take a right decision.All the very best and take care.

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hi, viren here be a doctor is really a proud feeling, and ofcource it gives you a stable future if anyhow you inlaw's & ur husband will not support u. please continue your studies and try to convenience your husband for ur studies, but don't quit keep smiling

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Even i am a female in ur similar situation, I am also preparing for my PG, and my husband is a doctor too. No matter how educated and broad minded ur in-laws and husbands are, they wont care or support deep enough for u. This is today's world. And this is what i have seen from my personal experience. You have to build up your own future. Since you are a doctor, you are one of the highly respectable sector in the society. So do ur best, try to get ur PG, manage both household, do ur chores, but keep aside time for ur studies. I wake up 3 hours early in the morning to do my studies. Hopefully, once u get through and once ur financially independent, they will look up at u...

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