Forum    Lovelorn    Need some conclusion for my problem

Hi Need some conclusion for my problem. I loved a girl for 6 years....six months back her brother planned to meet my father for our marriage. But somehow the horoscope is not matching...so it stopped from there and also she couldnt able to convice her family members...Now slowly she avoiding me...but still i love her so much ..i cant imagine life with out her..she understand my feeling too...but she is not bold enough to take any decision. Father forcing to me marry someother girl , he has some responsibility abt his son.... i know i am hurting him so much becoz of her. Really confused i cant able to concentrate in my work...In the meanwhile i got one marriage proposal.....profile is good , like to proceed further becoz of my father sake.... Now i am in dilemma ... i dont want to lose my sweetheart (even she is slowly avoiding me) Now i am 30 , This year i want to get marry ...so other way interest to go for the marriage.... Suppose , marriage proposal with other girl goes well i want to ask my sweetheart , final voice from her.... i dont know, what to ask her , how she will react....what will be the result...will she come back .... will she convice her family last try ? Really confused and upset.... Anybody give suggestion if u like..........