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Depressed?! Get Married

parul430  Join Date:29 April 2010 | India
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17 Dec 2009 01:12 AM
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A new study says that getting hitched is excellent for the fitness of both men and women as it reduces the chances of depression, angst and substance abuse.

The research was supported by the survey of 34,493 individuals from 15 different nations.

On the contrary, calling it quit through parting, divorce or being widowed, is related with greater chances of mental anarchies in both males and females; specially substance abuse for females and dejection for men.

The research was carried out by psychologists from the University of Otago in New Zealand is supported by the WHO World Mental Health (WMH) reviews derived from the developing and developed nations in last ten years.

What makes this examination unique and strong is the prototype of the research which is large and is derived from many nations. Moreover the research was not only based on the samples but the data incorporated depression, anxiety and substance abuse.

The scientists were also able to examine on what happens to the mental health of a married participant, when he is in a fulfilling marriage and when the marriage ends.

One of the most vital revelations is that in recent times it has been emphasized that marriage is beneficial for men than for women in context of mental health. But this investigation disagrees with such statement.

The psychologists discovered that compared to never getting hitched, getting married is beneficial for both males and females in context of mental health anarchies.

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tinku1  Join Date:08 November 2011 | India
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08 Nov 2011 06:18 PM
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hi i am seperate women and i get job in it company as HR but now i am depressed please send me good tips to balance job and home because came after job i working at home and responsibility about parents and relatives force about remarrige please send me a tips anout my problem.

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rita(change)  Join Date:18 November 2011 | India
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18 Nov 2011 12:20 PM
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hi i am seperate women and i get job in it company as HR but now i am depressed please send me good tips to balance job and home because came after job i working at home and responsibility about parents and relatives force about remarrige please send me a tips anout my problem.Hi, I am 29 years old and I am married. I am married to a guy with whom I loved for 11 long years. We got married against our family. His family has accepted us back and I share a very good bond with my inlaws. My family has still not come back. I problem here is me and my husband ve lots of fights. And every time we fight he beats me up blue black....He humiliates me like anything and speaks all rubbish about my family not accepting us till now...Now also my whole body is paining like hell because yesterday night again he beat me up like a dog. I am going into a mental state where I feel I should kill myself many a times. I really don know whom do i tell my problems and how will it get solve. His beating me has become a habbit. his family knows but they coulont help much....Please is thr anyone with some good advice.

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ettikajewell  Join Date:12 October 2011 | India
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07 Dec 2011 03:59 PM
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hi i am separate women and i get job in it company as HR but now i am depressed please send me good tips to balance job and home because came after job i working at home and responsibility about parents and relatives force about remarriage please send me a tips about my problem.Its really very tough to manage a job and home and responsibility together. But its good for you to stay busy or loneliness will trap you into deep depression.

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eskay  Join Date:04 September 2012 | Delhi | India
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06 Jan 2013 05:28 PM
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On 17 Dec 2009, rita(change) Wrote

"hi i am seperate women and i get job in it company as HR but now i am depressed please send me good tips to balance job and home because came after job i working at home and responsibility about parents and relatives force about remarrige please send me a tips anout my problem.Hi, I am 29 years old and I am married. I am married to a guy with whom I loved for 11 long years. We got married against our family. His family has accepted us back and I share a very good bond with my inlaws. My family has still not come back. I problem here is me and my husband ve lots of fights. And every time we fight he beats me up blue black....He humiliates me like anything and speaks all rubbish about my family not accepting us till now...Now also my whole body is paining like hell because yesterday night again he beat me up like a dog. I am going into a mental state where I feel I should kill myself many a times. I really don know whom do i tell my problems and how will it get solve. His beating me has become a habbit. his family knows but they coulont help much....Please is thr anyone with some good advice."

 Please aquire a good police like Danda. Immerse it in mustard oil for a week or so. Hide it in your house. Next time the bugger tends to beat you,pick up the Danda and beat him black and blue in the house and outside too. Don`t worry about the consequences. Your marriage ia already on the rocks. .Why not give  it a decent burial in style. May be this shock treatment brings him back to senses.REMEMBER ,extraordinary circumstances demand extraordinary solutions. And as an icing on the cake,slap a domestic violence complaint against him

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pallavi992  Join Date:22 November 2012 | Faridabad | India
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08 Jan 2013 02:00 PM
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 I am shocked to know that you have been bearing it all without a thought of loding complaint and taking legal steps! Talk to some good lawyer and share it with your trusted friend/s. Inspiration works wonder, keep faith and do what is right.

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nms  Join Date:23 January 2013 | Jalandhar | India
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23 Jan 2013 11:54 AM
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Be dare to put up the fight with him. He will thing many times and also seek compromise after that show.


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