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Hi! I am 29 yrs old, married for the past 4 yrs. I also have a son aged 2 yrs. I am posting a problem I have been facing for quite sometime, actually since the time I got married. My husband, is the elder one of the two brothers and is the only one around in Delhi here for his parents. His younger brother has migrated to the US. My in laws I guess like all parents in law, feel they have total right over their son, so much so that they expect that we celebrate our anniversary also with them!!! I have a feeling that my mother in law is so insecure about her son, that she has gone to all lengths (very diplomatically) to make me feel absolutely unwanted!!! Whenever I have discussed this with my husband, he feels I am against them and over the years this has become a sore topic! We started staying independently, a year back and since then whatever time my husband gets (in his busy schedule) he prefers to spend with his parents. they visit us every weekend! I feel very put off with this behaviour.... my husband has no feelings for me! I have a full time career and come back home only in the evening at 7.00PM. But even then, he expects dinner in time, I have to look after my son, and manage the whole house myself from getting milk to getting things done by carpenters etc.... all that he does is watch TV.... he doesn`t even interact with our son much.... Its getting difficult and at times I feel as to why am I staying with a man who doesn`t care for me, and doesn`t bother about me!! Is there a solution? My husband doesn`t believe in counseling!

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hi iam a husband and i can understand well ur problems because i am also going thru the same problem -- let me share with you what u need to make out is -- are u serious finding a solution or are u looking at a solution which shod favor you. lets be realistic that usually when it come sot parents issue husbands usually gets very protective -- see hypothetically if u and ur mom in law fights it would be very difficult for him to take ur side -- as that will be the final nail in the coffin. tmrw when ur children get older and married u will also be in a same position, try to find a solution keeping in view that ur mom in law will never change -- take ur hubby side and start appreciating ur mom in law -- have aged repo with ur MIL, once that happens the negativity around you by ur hubby will reduce as he will start thinking in a different approach abt u -- and may be ur problem will get sorted out