Be the first one to Like It (0)	Reply	Reply With Quote

Ask your husband to buy two flats side by side, that way both of you can be together and as well as provide each other teh required privacy.

Be the first one to Like It (0)	Reply	Reply With Quote

ignore that and think about ur own life dont waste it enjoy ur life

Be the first one to Like It (0)	Reply	Reply With Quote

Be the first one to Like It (0)	Reply	Reply With Quote

 Oh no eskayji, it is very unfair to give ideas like this...

Well Sadhana, These type guys --we cannot change in overnight, but never give up. Do your work properly and whenever get a chance, spealk to your husband.. By don;t nag, it will spoil the full thing. 

Speak to your Dh, as if your friend is going thru the situation like this and ask him how to handle it. It will make him think and it will make him realise his mistake and it will make him to open the eyes and see the truth. It will take time, but sure positive result in your favur..

Never attack anyone on their mistakes, make them think and you need a lot of patience.

Be the first one to Like It (0)	Reply	Reply With Quote

A real difficult situation indeed! You are not alone, there are so many of us women out here to give you company!
Your MIL is gonna stay with you forever... You do not seem to have any other misunderstndings or problems with your husband apart from your MIL and the money he gives her. So do not let this spoil your life.
The older generation need to respect their sons/ daughters privacy and personal life. India has always had the tradition of the older generation giving up material interests and responsibilities after their younger generation takes over. Right from kings to common man, the older generation used to value their childrens right to lead an independent life. They were used to giving over their responsibilities to their children when they come of age. But the current modern day mothers and fathers have so much of insecurity that they want a life long hold on their sons and daughters, to the extent that they disturb their children's married life and privacy.

But if you keep thinking about this, you will loose your life and your health. The younger generation of today is quite sensible. The best way to face this situtation would be to focus on other activities in your life. If you have hobbies like cooking, or painting or stitching or embroidery, etc.. take it up seriously. Keep yourself occupied with your hobbies. Try to earn money out of your hobbies. Stop talking about your MIL as every time you count your problems, they appear to be bigger and bigger. Instead stop thinking about it and focus on improving yourself and your activities. 

Time will have an asnwer for all problems... Let your problems solve on their own. Hatred or Worry will only spoil it for you. A sensible woman will be able to shift her focus to creative thoughts instead. Good luck and wish you a peaceful happy life.

Be the first one to Like It (0)	Reply	Reply With Quote