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my husband wants my in laws to live with us, but i don't like them b'coz of their bad behaviour with me in past. my father inlaw used to abuse and say bad words to me. and my husband also starts behaving the same in front of his parents. i am a working women and has 9 years old son. and they all used to say bad things in front of my son, and pressurise me so that i'll also say some thing bad in anger. all three, including by husband used to blame me for every bad thing happened in their life, either it is any illness or any money loss whatever. i can just forgive my husband at a time, b'coz i ;love him ,but i can't fogive my inlaws. they always used to talk, if you can't live with us, just divorce my son and we will get him marry again with some good girl. please sugest what to do, as i don't want to give him divorce.

You know what?With such people you should say boldly that "Fine, then if you say so,lets go ahead with the divorce.I love my husband a lot,and if all these issues are troubling him,lets divorce."Look...nobody can make you insecure without your consent.Believe me, if your husband gets to know this way on how much you love him,he will melt,if he is a nice man.Just be bold and stern....Keep telling your husband "I love you",and spend qulaity time with him.

@Pt - First of all i request u to plz dont go for divorce. And also dont bend to the bad words of anyone, as in geneal also people in the world starts taking other lightly who cirumb to some small thngs. So u have to be bold at at times to make ur point. Tell ur hubby in lone envoirnment n explain him truth n what wrong was there that happened to u. i m 100% sure he will agree to u when he is not in front of his parents. As very les people have courage to face n say truth.