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Do we need to see a counsellor?

googgly  Join Date:29 April 2010
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29 Apr 2010 06:01 PM
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My husband constantly keeps saying that he wants to file for a divorce for no reason at all. He is an irritable person and I feel that it is an empty threat. Do we need to see a counsellor?

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chand  Join Date:29 April 2010
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29 Apr 2010 06:01 PM
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Hii.. I would suggest that you should first talk to him about it and explain him the seriousness of the issue. Please communicate that you are not happy about he using that word for petty reasons or during routine family arguments. You may need to help him for the first few times by consciously reminding that he should not use that again. Look for about a month or two, if this doesnt work, I would suggest that you guys go and meet a counsellor about it. Good Luck!

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forumworld  Join Date:29 April 2010
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Yes, you are right. Communication is the key to solving this problem, no matter how unpleasant it gets. The issue has to be thrashed out. viji

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shravika  Join Date:29 April 2010
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29 Apr 2010 06:01 PM
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Well,visiting counselor will definitely help in settling the matter, but i would suggest to apply a self effort by discussing the same thing as your friend,s problem as well as showing concern over the relationship and ask his view then apply that to help yourself.Thank you.

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bala669  Join Date:29 April 2010
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29 Apr 2010 05:53 PM
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well it is not easy to find out mail me in detail if u are in chennai i can help u and give u guidance but it is a sensitive issue sent a detail mail i am ready to help u

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sankar1  Join Date:29 April 2010
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05 Mar 2010 04:03 AM
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Please dont consult Concellor , since then he may feel more bad if you do it..
One good thing is find his problem and try nt repeating same so arguments will reduce.
Also say him not to use divorce word for small arguments.
make him happy sexually and in personal life. he will change surely.

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ashi  Join Date:13 February 2011 | India
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I would say, it depends on since how is telling this, how often does he tells this and what kind of changes did you observe in him since the time he has been telling that he wanted a divorce...Look, People are different and everyone got their onw perception towards life...You can solve your problems and most of the time, TIME solves the problem.....If you think you loves and he loves you, let him say so how much ever he wanted and its not going to spoil yourd relation ship.......Some things happens yaar and in olden days people just discuss in the family and get it sorted nowdays, everything has becoming the interest of the unwanted, so with the family matters...Just ignore his words and love him unconditionally..Things will be alright

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kimmy  Join Date:19 April 2011 | India
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19 Apr 2011 06:26 PM
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My ex husband sent me a lawyers notice on a plani sheet of papaer, stating i should proved the the divorce papers as i got a third party divorce when we both were not living toghter or talking so was wondering what i shoudl do if i can give him the divorce its has been 6 years since i got my divorce from court on the basis of no support and left to live alone . We sorted our diffrence for our daughter and became freinds now he started tretning me again for the papers as he wants to get married again what should i do

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