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hi i am a sikh girl . recently i met a tamil boy through a matrimonial website and we really clicked . i found a lot of good qualities in him which i want in my partner . but the problem is he is a nadar by caste and i am a schedule caste , moreover in his no one really knows hindi. i stopped conversation with him thinking that its a difficult situation where the guy knows only english and his parents know tamil , so how would we interact . but even after so many months and meeting a few more guys i feel he is one of the best i have known . |
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better to marry the same nadar boy. be cause you are in love
love has the power to joint people from unknown country, unknown religion, unknown caste. |
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u r not going to live with his language...he could understand u watever u say right.,..by the times his parents also would understand language,,,,so that there s nothing to get confused....just marry n live happy life with him.... |
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better you learn tamil. its simple. your life will be fruitful. all the best. |
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never give up ur hope....in ur situation its only the language barrier which u can learn in a month or two....dont adjust with life thinkin about diff. language...better learn tht language n have a love-ly life....same in my case...m in love with another caste gal...m struggling...n need to struggle alot...i will never give up.... |
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hi,
If you feel that you cannot live with out him, then better marry him. But try to live a life that cannot be broken till your life ends. Language is not at all a problem...when you guys are in true love.
If his parents are not able to understand your language, its better for you to learn Tamil and liaise with them. Tamil is such a wonderful language. If you start learning it, you can do it in 30 days.
Hope for the best. Dont confuse yourself. |
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Yes one side will always remain in dark of life as u dont' know the mother lanuguage of each other, u can not heartly expressed ur feelings in your non mother language. |
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Language and religion are not barriers to life. I've seen people who live their life happily eventhough they have different mother languages. If a true love is there, nothing can be an obstacle. U can easily learn the language. But the best idea is go along with your parents decision |
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Gud thought came on your mind..... just think once again and take a right decission.... my decission is that u can marry him, but once again u check whether he is cheating u with a lie.... |
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If you are fond of him, better, you marry him. Language is not a barrier. If you both have will, you can learn mutual languages and could conversate in all the languages.
Best part is love. If you love him-marry him.
Nowadays who are seeing caste and religion. |
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hi
If you feel that you cannot live with out him, then better marry him. But try to live a life that cannot be broken till your life ends. Language is not at all a problem...when you guys are in true love.
If his parents are not able to understand your language, its better for you to learn Tamil and liaise with them. Tamil is such a wonderful language. If you start learning it, you can do it in 30 days.
Hope for the best. Dont confuse yourself. |
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I'm a gal from nadar caste. And I know it better. Its difficult for u to get acceptance in this community. They are very caste conscious. So, unless both ur parents agree to the marriage, please dont marry him. I've made this mistake and paying the price now. |
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please remember the sacrifices made by your sikh gurus for the protection of religion and act accordingly |
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think before act in life.....relation become with family, not with individual...choose your own caste person, love has no base in such marry |
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how stupid u can be in askin this question to others?
ask ur parents 1st who have guided and supported u even before u could understand what alphabets mean.. forget language they taught u principles and loved u all their life and now that u know the language of love with some 1 barely a few months old .. u have forgottton ur parents language of love.. will they be happy ab out this? are u worhty enough to love some1 else.. what if u have to pay the same price.. u love this tamil guy and he dithces u just as u plan to dith ur parents.. i think its only fair that u understand that u cannnot live life on infatuations.. be practical and respect other peoples feelings.. and before all others respect ur parents feelings.. |
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Nadar People are broad minded people. I have Lot of friends in that community and Family bonding will be very good with these people. I am a Tamil guy from Chettiar community. You can find lot of good qualities in them more than our Community. Just Check that guy alone about his personal behavior and his Parent's. That's enough. Every thing is Good. Proceed. You'll have a wonderful life. |
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