better meet the boy, you'll have more insights about him and then you can decide and discuss with your family.

 don't run away from house. it's easy to break relationships but it takes years to make them. think about it.

 Dear young lady,I am astonished,shocked and dismayed ,in that order,at the thinking process of your elders in these modern times.Please plead with them to go through these lines to be suitably enlightened.Since times immemorial,no couple has had their their stars & gunas matched as perfectly as Sita & Rama.And,pray,What kind of blissless conjugal life they had. Immediately after marriage ,they were thrown out of their palace,banished to the woods for 14 long years,the poor lady was kidnapped and impriisoned ,thousands of beings got killed,she had to face test by fire to prove her chastity and yet was disowned by her husband on public perception and ultimately had to commit suicide.The fate of Rama was equally worse. Ask them to ponder over this piece again & again and Insha Allah ,they will get the underlying message loud & clear.Amen !!!!!