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Hello everyone, I am 25 yr old unmarried tamil Hindu girl. I am in love with a Urdu Muslim guy. He is not willing to marry me because we will hurt our parents feelings by marrying outside religion. He is talking very practically. But it is very difficult for me to accept that I will not have him in my life. I am also worried that it will be cheating the person whom i am going to marry in future. Please help..... |
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you need a good counselor to help yourself out of the situation |
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hey dear! ur bf is quite correct. Inter religion marriage have many problems and if 1 parner is not so willing, I don t have much hope for such marriage.
and don t worry about cheating ur wud b hubby as most of d grls today have bfs n if ur husband is mature he wud understand.What matters is how u act after marriage. |
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Your boyfriend is being practical both for you and for himself. Take his advice and move on. |
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hi its good decision from ur boyfriend just listen him
u r not cheating anyone it life |
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hi dear i will help u see contect me on yahoo............my name is faizan and i am a muslim....... |
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hai friend shal i tel u onething com out of ur problm and thn see it.... i mean if ur friend has the sam problm thn wht wil u advic her so in this situation being praticl is good for u.... and plz othr thn lov ther's more to see in life... |
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You can marry this Muslim man and Inshallah you will be happy, I was also Hindu and I am a converted now, i am a happy man, I hope you will achieve your Heaven with thie Muslim man. Salam to you sis. Peace. |
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hi dear what he said is actually a very very correct thing as ia am in the same situation.....if you convert into muslim and marry him...i think there willl not be any problem....and tell about this to your family and get their acceptance first.....that is the most important thing......I WISH YOU A VERY ALL THE BEST TO YOUR FUTURE........ |
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Ask him to get converted to hinduism if he loves you...only then go ahead and marry him.
That will be a real test for him because most of themuslim boys get married to hindu girls to convert them and then there lives become hell......Read quran to know the plight of muslim girls in islam. |
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It is better for u to forget him. At the time of love, everything will seem to be easy, if u get married in such a way , each and every day will be hell for u. The love which u r having on him will get destroyed day by day infront of ur eyes. Instead of living such a life, better to marry a man from ur religion. Ur life will go smooth..... |
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i underwent same situation in my life tooo .... Wat we did is we separated now.its not just two persons' life its two families' so give up everything and start a new life dear...all the best |
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hey im 19 i was in a similar situation.. i reali dont think this guy is worth it.. if he had the guts to be in a relationship with you..why would he not hav the guts to marry you...i think he is jus playn with u.. move on cut ur lossses and hav faith in god... best of luk |
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hey dear! ur bf is quite correct. Inter religion marriage have many problems and if 1 partner is not so willing, I don t have much hope for such marriage.
and don t worry about cheating Ur wud b hubby as most of d girls today have bf n if Ur husband is mature he wud understand.What matters is how u act after marriage.u both really lv each so both need to say directly ur perents. otherwise u dnt hv any choice. |
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my suggestion wud be to listen to him...u think about cheating some one whom u dont know. but u must also think about ur parents whose heart will break if what u wish wud happen...if u cud control ur emotions for a while everything wud be fine..suppose if u marry the urdu guy after marriage u will get the guilt of hurting ur parents which is even worser... |
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You really need to check your facts first indian3! You can't pinpoint a persons wrongdoings, their actions on thier religion. The Qu'ran has NO teachings of disrespecting women, you would be astonished how Islam respects and cherish's women. The religious teachings are unfortunaltey not always acted out by the men and women but this does not mean that the teachings are wrong. I am sure the teachings in the Hindu religion don't say the same...do they? |
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