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akash2  Join Date:29 April 2010
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29 Apr 2010 05:53 PM
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Hi frds, am 35 working /married /2 kids..normal family life.am in Pune.I born & bought up in kerala, i am beautififul but was very shy.when i was doing gratuation a guy used to love me, i even liked him.But we never talk its silent love, but he told his frds abt his felings & it spread rumours that we hv affair.any way i married another man /moved to pune settled here.Now after 12 yrs, we came in to contact,he is even married & kid.Now we daily talks 2 hrs..its friendly talks..i really enjoying talking to him, but am afraid whr we will land up in extra marital affair.i dont want to do anything that will affect our family same time i dont want to stop talking to him.am confused?pls guide.

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sajaan1  Join Date:29 April 2010
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10 Apr 2010 12:04 PM
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do wat ever you likes....
go ahead....

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well  Join Date:03 May 2010 | India
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03 May 2010 09:27 AM
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Just think wisely and be good wife. You need to think what could be possible consequences and are you ready for that.. if your heart says Yes then go ahead 'n if No then just stop it, don't just let your self to get carried away.

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tillu  Join Date:23 September 2010 | India
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23 Sep 2010 08:17 PM
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hi reply me i am good looking 45 yrs old software engineer staying at hyderabad

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ravindra1  Join Date:03 February 2011 | India
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03 Feb 2011 05:06 PM
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You are breaking some ones belief ... please stop talking like that and make your own boundries . which will maintain your self estimate. if 1 falls in some 1s eyes he can live but if he falls in his or her own eyes thats the end of every thing

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aaa351  Join Date:20 March 2011 | India
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20 Mar 2011 02:24 AM
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hii,,,,,,,,,well its nice to be in touch with someone whom u love earlier,, but time has moved on....now u do hv ur pwn family,,, so keep relations with ur old love as a frnd only,,,, 2 hrs is something which is more than enough,,,try to devote that much time to your family,,,it will keep ur bonding with ur family in a very respectful amnner,, moreover you and your old love,both atre married.. so it doesn't make any sense to increase ur closeness...

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stephen1  Join Date:03 April 2011 | India
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03 Apr 2011 03:45 PM
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To follow what our heart says is to go astray. We cannot trust our feelings for ethical choices. To do so is disastrous. You have a great family. You are already into emotional affair, just a distance away from physical affair. Cut off your communication from your old boy friend and develop a good relationship with your husband. Be faithful to him and to your kids. May the Lord Jesus help you!

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cel  Join Date:01 July 2012 | India
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01 Jul 2012 08:29 PM
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the more you keep it; more it getting serious, you can run but you cannot hide away, so leave with it knowing the limitations and one day your feeling with him will be forgotten, and you will see it is better to keep your relationship as friends, love in friends stays.

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sarvansinghr  Join Date:19 July 2012 | Ludhiana | India
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19 Jul 2012 03:18 PM
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helo mrs i respect ur feelings but this is not aseptable after marriage , becz this relation not accepted by society and god , so this is tabboo

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praveen554  Join Date:20 July 2012 | Visakhpatnam | India
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20 Jul 2012 02:38 AM
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actually i want to talk with you

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Snigs  Join Date:20 July 2012 | Delhi | India
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20 Jul 2012 03:56 PM
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Why dont you first learn how to spell?

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eskay  Join Date:04 September 2012 | Delhi | India
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18 Oct 2012 11:00 PM
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  1. Dear FOOLHARDY, please remember you can eat the cake and have it too,albeit for a short while. The nature works against such alliances and sooner than later,it is bound to be exposed.and believe me " SAARI UMAR AAP DONO RAITA HI SAMAIT TE REY JAOGE. Kuch pal ka maaja sari UMAR ki Saja ban jaigee.Please don't do it ,it will become very very messy for everybody .Stop it before one thing leads to another and you may cross the LUXHMAN REKHA and reach the point of no return !!!!

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tokas  Join Date:28 September 2012 | Delhi | India
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20 Oct 2012 10:09 AM
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stop this metter if you want good life for both side

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swamibaba  Join Date:16 November 2012 | Pune | India
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16 Nov 2012 11:40 PM
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think about ur future and kids ...past is past. jst change ur number n live ur life

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eskay  Join Date:04 September 2012 | Delhi | India
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23 Nov 2012 10:41 PM
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It's not gonna be an affair but an unfair affair in which everybody is going to be a loser. And do you know who is going to be the biggest loser. You only.

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Juhee  Join Date:28 November 2012 | Dehra Dun | India
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14 Dec 2012 11:15 AM
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I guess the solution to your problem is in the statement that you have put up here. You call your life to be 'normal family life' and then you mention 'i am beautiful' ...darling! don't fool yourself. Just for the heck of some adventure out of your normal life, you can't spoil it all! And this guy you said you were in love with; you think he is in love with you coz you are beautiful enuf for that. So, you are quite clear on the expectations involved in such relationship :)

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