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Hellllllpppp Meee :(

lostgirl  Join Date:29 April 2010
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29 Apr 2010 05:53 PM
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I have been married for almost yrs now..never worked after mrge and in the sixth month of my pregnancy.. trouble in my life has started right from marriage day behaviour of my inlaws.. even though we stay in states away from them .. my MIL has managed to create ruckus in my life! well it goes this way ours was an arranged mrge.. my in laws behaved like the most decent ppl on earth b4 mrge.. but right from mrge day my mom in law changed colors.. she and her eldest DIL started throwing taunts on my face right from third or fourth day of mrge regardg jewellry i got in mrge :O which was however kept accrdg to their demands infact thr was much more done by my parents to satisfy them.. my husband.. honestly i dont understand his behaviour.. everytime i broke out in front of him when something was sd abt my parents he sticked to my side n assured me he will talk to his mom n stop this.. but to my suprise he behaved quite normally with everyone once he got out of the room we had talked in.. when i asked him he sd he would be looking for real right time n then talk :O  cos i was new i believed him but this never stopped.. next time i visited their house ..there was some other issue my mother in law startd with..and their Eldest DIL(who for some reason seems to be jealous of me) passd comments on my family.. i come from a quite liberal emotionally attached family so i never knew how to handle this..or had never seen such situations.. later when visited my parents i had to tell them this. time.. n they sd maybe time will change things once settle cos the boy (husband) is very good n understanding ? n we should ignore this.. but lately things have gone too sour.. in my fourth month of pregnancy inlaws visited with some relatives.. n in hours of their arrival my MIL started a drama the minute she saw her son out of sight.. she abused my parents n sd bad things abt me and she has never till date expressed happiness over our first baby to which her son tells me that in their family they dont express feelings openly?!??! ..MIL even tried to hurt my stomach accdtly at this visit.. and her son cannot believe this is true.. he has still been looking for right time to talk to her.. infact infront of him when she was making up stories abt me he sat with his head down .. he says he never says anything to her out of respect..infact lately he has changed too.. with all these lies frm MIL.. he infact tortured me hit me fought with me after they walked out of our place.. he blamed me for everything..and hit me badly when i am pregnant :-( i seriously feel i should walk out on this mrge or drag my MIL legally but then my parents would not be able to take that..  however they have told me i should not worry abt anything till my delivery..n  i will never be allowed to go to my inlaws place now cos of this mental torture.. i dunno what should be done..sometimes i just want to walk out n tk cr of my baby but then i cant stay in my parents place..n just cant seem to give up hope that someday my hubby will change n support me n keep me n my baby happy .. i have never felt so helplesss n depressed at times i feel i should end myself only :-(

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Re: Hellllllpppp Meee :(

sri5  Join Date:05 February 2011 | India
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05 Feb 2011 12:43 PM
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Dear Siser, Its a painful life and also a common life with MIL & Husband having respect towards them.Be brave and wait till ur baby arrives the world. Then u can come to a decession. Dont tke any wrong decessions. If u are a optimist try chanting the name of the lord u beleive and just dont stop that. prayers do miracles. keep smiling

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srii  Join Date:30 January 2012 | India
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30 Jan 2012 11:54 AM
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hi, as told above prayers will make miracles, my hubby & mil also are same like yours. but after my son`s born my hubby has changed 10% atleast. so don`t take wrong decessions. do you want to end yourself because of this kind of people. Think about your mother & father before you end up your life. take care,


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