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My brotherinlaw misbehaved with me in the early years of our marriage.So we are not on good terms. He is now coming to stay with us indefenitely. I fear for my daughter since she will be at home as I am working. Although logically he wont misbehave, being a mother cant help worrying.She is just 12 yrs old.My husband will be deeply hurt if I voice my doubts.The only option I can see is quiting my job and being at home.. Pl advice

I live away from my brotherin law and his wife . Iam married for 38 years. My parents live in the same town. WHenever I visit my parents town my husband insists I must live with his older brother and his wife. His borther and his wife has been shaming and naming me and abusive to me since I am married. I am 63 years old. I tried to go with my husband but hejoins them and also insult me. His brother use 4 letters word. his wife use thier postion. I am muddled at this age what should I do. He also want to come and live with me. Please help