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Pls help me out. We are married for 2 years.Ours is an arranged marraiage.My hubby is a nice loving and caring person.We dotn live in a joint family. But he chnages when his parents or my parents visit us. He talks less to me, seems irriatted , talk less to his parents or my parents and doesnt mingle along so well. I dont know whether he is shy to talk in large gathering or he hates people visiting us often. We have little converstaion when anyone is around. But we have more ago clashes. He starts ordering at me and I start giving it back to him.This happens in front of both our parents.Probably each one of us wants to show each others parents that we have a control in our hosue. We dont behave normally.Even otherwise he is a shy person.When it is just 2 of us he talks laughs and is cheerful. What sort of behaviour is this? I did ask him on why he cuts down on conversation when a 3rd person is around, he had nothing to say just teased me saying I always crib. Does this happen to all in arranged marriages? Do couples feel shy to talk in front of others? what wrong?

his is normal behaviour even you also behave in same manner just think why you do so you will get the answer

Probably he is not secure with you as yet. When another person is around, he wants to show that he is boss. You have to convince him that you love him and then perhaps he will get over his lack of confidence. All relationships are new.



Viji