The feeling of bravery is great and out of this world, but it's really hard to step out of your fear and comfort to fight for someone else. Few people act bravely in emergencies, and others stand behind and watch. Some believe that bravery is a genetically inherited trait while others say that it can be learned. Most people don't want to take heroic action if it puts them in danger, they like to be on the safer side.
Fear gives you an opportunity to grow, and if you can control that feeling then becoming courageous is not hard. It's not like that brave people do not have an instinct of fear, they have, but they took over that feeling and do their part. Whenever the situation demands of witnessing a crime everyone thinks that some other person will go ahead and do something and in this way the crime takes its form. This philosophy applies in our personal life too. Brave people face challenges bravely and achieve their goals while cowards wait for someone to help them to accomplish their goals, or they do so by cheating on someone.
Everyone has his or her own limits and comparing two different individuals is not right. Accept your limitations and take challenges. The best teacher who can make us brave is life. Take your life as it comes and does not run away from its challenges, face them with courage and learn from them. Avoiding our life problems and finding an easy way or taking help from others to overcome them is what losers do, and it shows the lack of courage.
Putting others down to achieve your dreams is not an act of bravery. Unmask your real hero and fight to get what you want. Don't apply tricks and shortcuts to gain a benefit from others. Think about your goals and take steps to achieve them. Don't over think as it could lead to fear. Just do it. The best way to deal with your fears is memorizing the situations when you feel strong and brave. You'll certainly gain confidence from those situations and will be able to do whatever you want.
Only physical courage is not bravery. Even small things come under the definition. Whatever you do by overcoming your fear is considered as a brave act, and you can feel a hero in you. Believe in yourself and get what you want.
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