You've identified him as the man for you. You've been trying to get in touch with him for a while. Discreetly and other wise. But things haven't gelled well for you. And you don't know why his is ignoring you or turning you down?

• He may genuinely not be interested in any relationship at this point in life. It could be due to a bad experience with a girl. It could be work stress    he has other things in mind. Or it may be that he is happy enough the way he is right now.

• He isn't used to women approaching him. He doesn't know how to handle this situation. He may think you are too forward. Or he may be interested, but doesn't know how to respond. Is he getting flustered at this new state of affairs?

• His interests may lie in other directions. It may seem to you that's it's obvious he isn't dating anyone. But he may have another girl in mind. Maybe he is hoping to have a relationship with her sooner or later.

• Maybe he doesn't feel rich enough for a girl friend. Not too many girls offer to go Dutch and not too many boys are brave enough to accept that situation. To a conventional guy, a lady needs to be wined and dined in style. He may be a conventional but broke.

• He may be playing hard to get. Every time you pursue him, you're stroking his ego. And it makes him feel wanted.

• He may think he has responded positively to you. But you didn't get that unspoken message. Lack of communication here.

• Or he might not have got your initial advance at all. You may think you have communicated your interest in him. He may have just read it as a friendly gesture.

• Could it be your reputation? Do you have a history of boyfriends? Maybe he just doesn't want to be the latest on your list.

But reasons apart, isn't it always better to have him as a friend before you decide on having him for a soul mate? Always start off with a friendship. If there is something more to be, it will evolve by itself. If not, you still have a friendship worth cherishing.

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