Love is a wondrous emotion and will stay that way if only people let it be.

A man and woman can be very happy together for years if they continue to accept each other for what they are.

The wealth of a relationship lies in the ability to revel in the differences. And to continue to do so over the years.

But basically, it is our tendency to start questioning these differences over a period of time. The woman wonders, "Why is he so different? I wouldn't react that way." Or the man might think, "Women - they are so unpredictable."

Men and women are programmed differently. They think different, they feel different and they react different. And they'll continue to be that way.

Men for instance, are not blessed with very good listening skills. If his lady has a problem, he'll hound her with various solutions. And the only thing she needs is a shoulder to cry on. Another woman would instinctively know what to do.

Because when women are upset the need to talk about it - it's their way of dealing with the stressful situation. Men, on the other hand, tend to retreat into themselves when they're stressed out. They need to shut out the world and come to grips with their problem. They don't have the overwhelming urge to talk about it.

Men can't and don't read between the lines in any situation. They don't see any need to. Women have this great ability to deal with the unspoken word. They constantly read between the lines - even when there is no message there. And sadly, they start expecting men to do so as well.

A woman's basic tendency is to nurture the people she cares for. A man on the other hand will tend to focus on expanding his world and making it bigger and better.

A man and woman can complement and supplement each other perfectly - if only they continue to celebrate the differences. Love would, indeed, last a lifetime.

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