We all know that from a woman’s point of view, relationships and the time spent on nurturing them make an important part of her life. For women, relationships have to be tendered to and cushioned lifelong in order to sustain them successfully and they go to any lengths to achieve this state. But how many of us stop to consider the most important relationship of all, without which the others can never succeed – the relationship with our own self? Are we spending enough time on that? Cliched sayings like, â€"Accept yourself for what you are”, or â€"Learn to forgive yourself” are all fine but then have you stopped to think why?

It actually pays for you to be kind to yourself and more understanding of your shortcomings. Encourage yourself, care for yourself, support yourself and you will find it easier to do the same unto others. Always adopt a positive attitude and be gentle to yourself – this way there will be no stress and you will be able to face tough situations better with a balanced attitude.

Learn to listen to yourself. Give importance to your feelings, to what you want – they are after all as important if not more, than the feelings or desires of others. Never deny your thoughts a hearing or dismiss them as unimportant or low in priority. Understand that your thoughts too are valid and have a right of place and never be judgemental about them. This way you will always stand up for whatever you believe is right and not be cowed down by what others may say or feel.

Understand your nature, your needs and preferences instead of rejecting them – this way you will be at peace with yourself, at total harmony with your daily life and you will bloom in your unique environment. Learn to recognise your weaknesses, deal with them kindly and you may even end up turning them into strengths. After all, no one is really perfect and you become a better person if you realise that your positive qualities far outweigh your negative ones.

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