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Every girl has a particular criterion for her dream guy. Some might look for money, some might go for sense of humour and some might find a fancy degree very attractive. What if you happen to come across a guy from your dreams on fine day, under moon lit sky in a cocktail party? It might be “hair pulling” frustrating for you to strike a witty or funny conversation at the moment with this situation head on. For all girls who face anxiety attacks or even panic attacks while talking to a guy, here are some great conversation starters with the guy of your dreams.

1.Do your home work well
Before going to a party or what so ever the outing it might be, dress up yourself in your best clothes. Highlight the things you like in yourself; if you like your eyes, wear some eyeliner and mascara, if you like your hair then let them down and wear some fancy accessories like hair bands or clips. If you are confident about yourself, the guys are bound to notice you.

2.Ask the time
Though this is probably the most clichéd way of starting a conversation with a guy but it is time tested and totally safe. This is a very practical question, and if the guy is smart he would probably pick up the indication. Do not forget to remove your wrist watch (if you are already wearing one) and make sure that he is wearing it, so that you don’t end up looking dumb.

3.Be approachable
A friendly and happy looking girl would automatically attract people towards her. Avoid being sloppy, boring and quiet. Remember, the first impression is the last impression; make this impression everlasting, you might not want to live with regrets. Your friendly gestures and confidence would surely impress the guy.

4.Be comfortable and make him comfortable too
It is very important to be comfortable in your skin, as this automatically sends the same signal to people around. Make the conversation interesting. Avoid asking yes or no questions, like instead of asking “do you like cats”, ask him “which pet do you like”. Do not ask personal questions as it may seem impolite at the situation. This will surely send him the wrong signals and make him run away for good.

5.Try knowing him before you actually meet him
Since you are at a social gathering, you would definitely have some mutual friends. Try to indirect and discreet while getting to know him. You can even take advantage of some handy social networking websites. You will surely find him in the friend list of one of your friends. Try knowing his interest and job details. If you share the same interests, you might get lucky. But most importantly, do not lie. If he is interested in games, don’t pretend that you like them too. You might end up looking stupid.

The bottom line: Make your confidence speak volumes. Be sure of yourself and be true to him. Show your real self and avoid sending wrong indications. If you pretend to try to be someone else with him, he is bound to find it out in future.
 

Tags : Women, dream guy, meeting, comfortable