Men and women together are like fire and fuel. They can never go hand in hand. They can neither live without each other nor together. The relationship between a girl and a boy can be the sweetest relationship on Earth, whereas, there are possibilities that if things don’t go smooth it can be the most bitter one as well. While in a relationship lots of things should be followed, while it is believed that those who are completely transparent in their relationship survive for long but it is actually a myth. To make a relationship work smoothly there are many things which need to be discussed and at the same time there are things which should be avoided that can hurt others. There are possibilities that women would not agree with this notion but this is the working mantra for men.
One major thing that men like to hide and should rather hide is the memorabilia of their ex-girlfriend or girlfriends. Men believe in letting bygones be bygones but girls just don’t follow this rule. Dropping down the names of an ex flame has been the strong reason behind many break-ups.
We’ve all heard that big boys don’t cry but the fact is that they do cry but are not caught crying. Men eat fast, talk loud, compete ferociously but keep their feelings under guard. Boys learn to choke back tears as early as their initial visits to playgrounds. They fear that if women find out this revelation then she might think that her man isn’t quite the man she thought he was.
Men also try to hide their income and expenses at the early age of their relationship. However, as the relationship progresses couples start growing familiar to each other but men feel it safe in keeping their personal monetary value close to their vest.
Fantasies are meant to be shared and enjoyed together but this might not be the case with men. What they fantasize can be a nightmare for women. They fear that women might just not appreciate them if they get to know about the dark fantasies running through in their man’s mind and would she would leave the room even before a man blinks. We all had our share of embarrassing moments and it is natural to hide it from others. Same goes with men. Reliving the incident where one has already lost his pride is just not acceptable by men. The visual of the same and the sight of a woman killing herself with laughter can surely blow men off their feet. Unfortunately if any man has suffered such humiliation he should make sure that his girl never gets a whiff of it, she might not be able to look at him in the same way as she did previously.
Male brain is emotionally clueless; their access to feelings is much less compared to that of women. No one knows what lurks behind a man’s silence. They always try to hide their emotions and secrets and they learn this lesson early.
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