Relationships need time and care, says Lilya. There was a time when her boyfriend was ignoring her and she was quite worried about her boyfriend`s changing behavior. She was surprised to see that her three years of relationship has just gone in few months. She was not getting any reasons for what all has happened to her. She started losing interest in everything like her hobbies, shopping and meeting friends, she started feeling depressed all the time. She was all alone. There are many girls like Lilya, who have faced break ups with their boyfriends and have seen their boyfriend changing with time. Some girls are lucky and intelligent enough and do not involve seriously in a relationship, while some take it very seriously and the effect of such relationships impacts their whole life. Love is an emotional relationship but one has to use her mind to understand the other. Lilya believed relationships are not something you could bind and you will get. She had a firm belief in her love. Men are different from women in their thoughts and actions. There are many points which need to be considered while you are in a relationship. Give Space to Him
Lilya was mad in love with Annie, but when she found that he was ignoring her, she stopped contacting him. Instead of doing enquiries or asking the same question again and again, she should stop running behind him. It is not necessary that he must spend 24 hours with her; she should give some time to him to indulge and carry on his own activities. A girl must understand that, she should give enough space to their boyfriend to take his own decisions rather than banging on his decisions as many guys didn`t like girl`s interference every time. Love Yourself
Its better that a girl loves herself first and pays more attention to her hobbies. She should indulge in the activities she loves doing the most, this will make her more confident. Meeting new people, watching movies, visiting beauty parlors and spa are few stress relieving methods for many girls. A guy may on the other hand feel jealous and ignored and might help a girl to attract him again. Faith is the key
There are many good relationships which end up because there is lack of faith among the couples. Lilya says, if you have faith in your love, he will not leave you. But it is always advisable that a girl should never blind faith her boyfriend. A girl must learn to have faith in herself and should be clear about her relationship; no doubt related to her relationship should come at any point of time. Don`t ask reasons
Many girls have a habit of asking unnecessary questions all the time like what are you doing? When are you coming? Are you dating any colleague these days? Which most of the boys hate and many a times avoid answering to such questions. If a girl is asking such questions, boy may feel that his girlfriend does not have faith in him. Healthy communication is a key for any relationship; couples should discuss and express their feelings for each other, unnecessarily and repeated questions will ultimately create tension in the relationship.
Tags : Relationships, Breakup, Love, Boyfriend