There are many euphemisms used to describe it - having an `secretive lover`, ‘two-timing`, `multi-timing`, ‘multi-city affair’ - no matter what it`s called it amounts to one thing, CHEATING. And the capital letters are intentional because no matter what the reason it`s a terrible thing to do to someone who has put their trust in you. Experts estimate that nearly 85 per cent of married men or men involved in serious relationships cheat. That means that out of every five men four are unfaithful to their partners. But it`s a misconception that `only` men cheat. Women are also equally capable of being unfaithful. Years back women never stepped out of their homes and never had an opportunity to cheat. But in today`s time when our society is in a transitional phase, roles of both sexes are blurred. Cheating is no more a gender issue.
Lack of compatibility :
Relations do not last if two people are not compatible. The initial days when two people are in love is the crucial period. If you understand each other well during this period and decide to be with each other, the relation lasts. But, if in the initial days of the relation you don’t make an attempt to know each other and search yourself well, it is rare that a relation will last. When a woman doesn’t find her partner compatible, she is unhappy. She might find the same compatibility with someone else.
Lack of sex :
If a relation lacks sex, it might tempt a woman to cheat on a man. Women do have sexual preferences and desires. If they are not satisfied she will search it in another man and have another relation. Many a times sexual preferences differ, even if it differs, men do mould themselves according to a woman’s preference. But, lots of men don’t manage to do that and then a woman will find a man who can match her sexual preferences outside the relationship.
Break free :
Just as some men have the urge to step on a crooked path, many women love to take the risk by adding excitement to their life. They urge to break free and drop the cloak of being a committed partner. This makes them to cheat on their partner. She might get attracted to another man and have a one night stand, to have an adventurous feeling.
Lack of happiness :
She might be a great partner and he a great lover, but at times he might be just so busy with his work that she is left alone. Loneliness creeps in the relation. She must have felt lonely while she was not in a relation. But, feeling lonely even when she is in a relation or in a marriage is what she cannot bear. Women generally become infidel due to emotional reasons. She doesn’t get enough attention from her partner. They love each other but they might not get enough time to spend with each other. This leads to unhappiness and then she finds happiness with someone else.
Lot of women get disillusioned when they start living with their partners. They might have had a completely different idea of living with a person. When they start living together, dreams collapse like a pack of cards. He is suddenly is not the ideal partner she had thought to be. Her relation is a sinking ship. She uses another relation to get out of the disillusioned marriage or relation. When she gets disillusioned she searches for a perfect relation outside her present relation.
A strong willpower immensely helps to overcome this dilemma and not get carried away.
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