When he returns from school, full of news, lend him your ears. No matter how busy you are. Ten to fifteen minutes will not make a difference to anybody's schedule. But it will make a difference to his day. It will be better, brighter and more loving. 'Cause you gave him what he needed. Your interest.

He's upset. And dismayed. You might be angry. You know he is in the wrong. But hear his point of view all the same. He is entitled to it. When he is done, gently point out where he went wrong. And how he should have handled the situation. And he'll appreciate it. 'Cause you gave him what he wanted. Your patience.

He's home for the day. And a little bored. He wants you to spend time with him. Put away your duties. Clear your mind and sit with him. Read together, play together, sing together, and plan together. Believe me, he'll be grateful. 'Cause you gave him what he craved for. Your time.

He's acting in his school play. It's an important day at work for you. Take time off anyway. Reschedule your meetings. Watch him on stage. Be proud to be there. He'll never forget it. 'Cause you gave him what he needed. Your presence.

He's done badly. In his tests. Or exams. His teacher has ticked him off. And the whole class knows. He faces you now. Scared and humiliated. Take him into your arms. Wipe his tears, soothe his brow with gentle hands and a soft voice. Tell him about stepping-stones and success. You will help him do better the next time. He'll be obliged. 'Cause you gave him what he wanted. Your support.