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You think life stinks? Well, it probably does    but only because you`re determined to view it that way.

Get one point straight in life. Life is what you think it is    your mindset defines your life.

You can have a complete makeover in life by just changing your point of view. The power of the mind is amazing    so why not use it to advantage?

For instance    you think your marriage isn`t doing too well. You feel that your husband is neglecting you. You can`t help but feel resentful, angry and saddened by the fact.

Now, let`s view the same situation with a different perspective. Your husband is busy. He`s got a high-pressure job that takes up most of his time. But you`re proud he is able to cope. He isn`t a lazy good-for-nothing like your neighbour`s guy    always hanging around the house.

He isn`t able to help you much round the house. But you can cope. It ain`t for nothing you consider yourself savvy. You`re more than capable of getting things done. And making a life for yourself. You are no Victorian housewife. You`ve got friends, hobbies and plenty of other things to keep yourself busy.

And you can welcome him home with a smile and a joke. He loves your sense of humour and looks forward to coming home. You, after all, are no grouch who glares as he walks in after a hard day`s work.

Try this new mindset for a couple of weeks. And you know what? Your life will begin to change. Not only will your marriage do better, you will also revel in self-confidence. You will laugh easier and louder.

So, what`s up honey? Did the circumstances change? Or was it just a question of mind over matter?

How many more problems and relationships could you change by viewing it differently? Doesn`t it give you a heady feeling to know you can change the world? Your world. Merely because you chose to change your attitude?

The biggest asset you have is your mind. Don`t let it hurt you. Use it to heal your life.