It is a general nature among women to be god-fearing. There are some of them who spend their whole lives around the church or other religious places which suit their religion, while some other do frequent religious visits to church and thus show their love and respect for the higher power. These women are naturally orthodox in their faiths and beliefs, and there is a certain simple charm surrounding them which is hard to find in the not-so-orthodox women. There is a very common misconception among people that modern women are unorthodox. This is completely wrong, because a lot many women nowadays have beliefs and faiths which are very similar to the traditional ones. This is not to say that they believe about the sun revolving around the earth or such things, but the main point here is that they have respect for nature and religion. And there beliefs are no less strong than our grandmas who can easily claim to be orthodox.
Coming to the point of the way people behave, belief in religion and God has a lot to do about it. It’s when people fear God that they come to respect their fellow human beings. And it’s when people have faith in their own religion that they come to respect those people who happen to belong to a different religion. So being orthodox is a clear sign of being well-behaved. But it is not the only sign. Many women are there who are unorthodox and still they are very much well-behaved. It actually has a lot to do with the way one is brought up. Behaviour of a person mainly depends on the way one has spent one’s childhood. And it has been seen in most cases that the so-called sociopaths are mainly those who have had a troubled childhood. This is to say that either they have been maltreated in their own homes in the hands of their own family members, or in the hands of the society. And this is not only the case for the sociopaths. Some women are there, especially the ones who belong to the extreme classes of the society, who certainly don’t know how to behave in normal situations. Either they are too spoilt, or they are too ignorant. In the former case, the main reason is that the parents most often hardly find the required time to take care of their daughters, who later grow up to be spoilt brats. It happens to be a fact that such spoilt women are normally unorthodox.
The real tragedy is in the cases of the women who come from the lower strata of the society. They spend their childhood growing up among people who have very little knowledge about what behaviour is all about. And as a result they grow up to be ignorant about the ways in which a fellow human being is to be treated. In sombre situations they cry out loud and in humorous situations they attract attention by laughing in a similar way. So one’s behaviour has to do mainly with one’s upbringing. Orthodoxy just happens to be a fact.
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