I am Neena aged forth and mother to daughters, My family life is in a turmoil, I am a mother who take of my daughters on my own, my family life with my husband has come to an end for the past six years, he did business and lost everything, but i never complained, he left us and went for two years , my eleder daughter went to depression and i had to bring him back to my life, he became a burden on me so got him some job wit good pay but that is also not of any use to me, he does not help me financially too, instead he spreads rumors that i have an illict relation with a friend of mine which is not true.
Family relation ship if not stable children are the one who is mostly effected, everyone have their own reasons to break and when you have children your ego clashes should not effect your childrens future, my elder who was a very bright student is very week in her studies and in fact she tried to cut her viens just because i asked her why cant she concentrate on her studies, I do what ever is possible for my children with the meagre salary i get.
Every parent makes mistakes but the impact of our mistakes is taken by our kids, giving counselling to my doll might help her a bit but the hurt she feels when her father is not there and when she hears from her father dirty things about her mother will in the long run spoil her future, I have not asked him not to come and meet children or not to call and talk with them, but the moment he calls he always talk rubbish and my kid crys so i avoided giving his calls to her, the other daughter is fond of me and it does not bother her at all whether father is there or not.
As everyone knows father plays a major role in the daughters life more than a mother, infact i was like that, I always wanted to marry a man who will be the exact replica of my father and infact to some extent he was like that, but what changed the scenerio i dont know, still now i miss him, i want him back in our life, i give lot of respect for relation, i enjoy the company of my relatives, but hardly i get time or money to be with them when there is a function or anything in the family.
but i do see to it that whenever i get time i am with my children, they should not miss me because tomorrow they too will be a wife - mother.
My request to all those who view this blog should give a better meaning to the relation that they have with all their members in the family and to respect each others feeling and lead a happy life.