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Forgive & Forget

Submited by- ruchii.kumar on 24 Dec, 2010    Relationships

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Dont we all have lingering grudges that we love to clutch on to? Havent you been wronged or cheated at some point of time? Dont we all feel let down when people turn out to be quite different from what we thought they were ( and were capable of! ) These hurts are invariably those which were inflicted upon us by those whom we considered friends, or those people who we had high expectations from. If a stranger cheats you, it may get you mad, but you tend to move on. Whereas if a friend cheats you, you love to dwell upon it.

I know it sounds hard but believe me its not impossible. Yes I am talking about freeing your soul through forgiveness. Do you really want to hang on to old hurts? Even though you know they arent good for you? I am not talking through my hat, I talk out of experience. And believe me, it works.

When I talk forgiveness, I dont mean that you walk up to that person and tell him you have forgiven him. You may argue, that if a person is not sorry for what he has done, how can you forgive him? You need to forgive people in your heart. Reason with your mind, and grant forgiveness to those who wrong you, within your heart. You will see how free you feel after that. As it will rid your mind / heart from pent up anger, rage, hatred, stress and anxiety. All of which are known to manifest themselves in the human body as disease ( eg. Hypertension, cancer, depression, cardiovascular disease etc)

In our day to day existence there are many areas of conflict, whether at work, with a parent, with a spouse or even friends. If we learn to forgive instead of nursing grudges, see the difference it makes to your life. Start small, by resolving your everyday hurts through forgiveness. It will take time before you learn to forgive those who have deeply hurt you. As you go along, forgiving, and freeing yourself, you will realize that forgiving becomes easier and easier.

- Hasina Wajeed

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ruchii.kumari (4 Years ago)

I am sorry to disagree with you as some people cannot be forgiven for what they do to someone. It really really hurts. Its unforgettable and unforgivable

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ruchii.kumari (4 Years ago)

Many a times I think of rather taking revenge on the person who has cheated me & hurt me but i was even incapable to even plan how to hurt & take revenge... but after waiting for a while i have realised that god has punished the ones who hurt me in the same way as they had planned and hurt me through some other means and they are suffering too... I GO BY THE OLD SAYING "AS YOU SOW (the seeds) SO SHALL YOU REAP" So forget your problems because Mother Nature is always with good people to take revenge on our behalf....

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ruchii.kumari (4 Years ago)

Hi,everyone.Hope all of u r doing well. Good post,hasina.I cant agree less.The early we forgive,the earlier we tend to move out ofthe pain that we suffer from.From my experience,i can say that but in my case though i could forgive them,i couldnt forget.Maybe that has kept me in a caution now,nt to trust anyone so much that they have the power to change your world completely.Would love to hear from all u guys.Take care & have a great time !!!!!!!!!

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ruchii.kumari (4 Years ago)

This is really good article that you wrote.While i was reading your article i know what exactly you saying because i feel that feelings what you get after you forget or forgive somebody.

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beautifulcircles (4 Years ago)

Hi All!

Good article Hasina without any doubt..we need to put behind the the hurts and move on in life because its not making any difference to the one who has wronged you...and like Kiran says Nature has its own plan..but inspite of all this that pinch never leaves you honey...and why have the laws been made...i know its not possible for all to teach a lesson but those who can should surely teach the other person he cant go scot free by ruining someones life....

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