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Reflections on fatherhood

Submited by- ruchii.kumar on 08 Aug, 2010    Pregnancy & Parenting

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A girl was pregnant, she informed her husband on phone while she was made to stay at her parents place due to inlaws problems, hey I m pregnant, it was moment of joy, excitement, suddenly the man who was not even able to connect to his wife due to his dominating & ever hovering over mother became a true man somebody his wife carved for him to be..hey you don t mention anything to anybody as yet I ll inform my mother you don t-girl pleaded knowing her totally non-supportive inlaws-she ll be blamed-but he insisted-as usual she waited, had faith on him as everybody preaches in India for girls to, No phone call came, agin she waited no phone call came, she called, hey what happened...oh I was buisy he said, but she knew him, his mother could nt allow him the liberty of being father which will take hi out of her hands. Hey I want to come back to my house-he said why- she was shocked. Eventually she went-pleaded, cried & apologised to her mother-in-law for being pregnant without her permision. Fifth month of pegnancy even after regular requests & pleading none neither her husband or her inlaws were ready to take her to a gyno-with reason -in our family ladies used to go to gyno s only at the time of delivery-girls parents intervened-please let us take our daughter to a doctor-They were told, Do that & then you can keep your daughter with you for whole of her life-in the meanwhile suddenly one day when her mother-in-law was screaming & abusing her for not taking care of the house & not doing household work, due to all this pressure bleeding started, eventually with bessings of god, somekindness was showered on the giirl & she was taken to a doctor-where first thing she was asked by the doctor-Are you illeterate? uneducated? all this time the husband only told the girl he is """Buisy""" He went abroad later. Girl was all alone at her inlaws place for rest of the time. A beautiful girl came to this world, all healthy & smiling, no her father was not their for delivery...to be contd.

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