iam ramya housewife from hyd.i have 2 kids of 12yrs n 8yrs boys.my marriage life is full of disputes.there is no day that i have not cried.my inlaws,my husband,my sister-in-laws all r against me.they all insulted me n my parents a lot.my parents cannot do anything bcos they want me to be with pateince atleast for my children.i want to live seperate with my kids.but nobody understands me including my parents.there is a limit for everything.normally iam very sensitive n i cannot express my veiws properly.they all took this weakpoint as an advantage.and iam mentally tortured by my husband.he takes me n children outside as if he loves us verymuch.but he never talk or share any thing with me.according to him iam there only to cook,look after kids n home n satisfy his all kinds of needs.for outside world he is a loving husband n a good father.but i only know how cruel he is.but nobody agrees me.and i dont know how to convince others.iam fed up of all these.many times i think of making suicide .but every time i remind that i have to live for my children.they need me.but how?i cannot live in this type of conditions.i want to live seperate with my kids.but iam worried that they wont give my kids to me.they r rich n can do anything.if that happens i dont know what to do.please anybody can help me in this issue.
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ajay.r2008 (3 Years ago)
i think u can understand the essence of the story..pls think in positive way..dnt bother abt other words..pls atleast for ur children u try to forget al that..love them..pls erase everything from ur mind..try to be hapy..think wisely dnt be depressed..bye take care
akash563 (3 Years ago)
just remove the thought of getting seperated from ur husband...then u can think stable...bcoz it really worsens the case and it may lead u to loose ur kids and makes u single...really.as u said they are very rich and u don`t have ur parents support also...so u r in the battle field and u have to win by any means now...and first of all strengthen ur self..may b by becomig financially independent ....and not only that improve ur thoughts...think positively...spare some time for urself..read some personality development books..don`t get disappointed...u know the song HUM TUM EK KAMARE ME BAND HO...yes this really right..u and ur problem are locked in the room..and the key is lost..so u have to win over ur problem...no escape..just b brave....and i had an aunt...my own aunt..she had a very sadistic husband..he tried to kill her twice..and her inlaw also..she used to scold her..like any thing..but as u know ...the days will chage and the truth always wins..after her children grew up...they warned my uncle not to touch her even...otherwise they told him they will beat him black and blue...now she has a two sons,one working in microsoft..and weel setteled and she is like a queen now..her children realised that she suffered a lot..so they treats like a queen now..this is a real story...i can understand ur position...but time is the best answer for many questions..be patient...think wiselty and b brave...sote out some solutions...and act accordingly...by some means..try to b financially independent...and let ur husband realise dat u will b wit him in his rest of the life but not his mother or sisters...ok?take care bye
vesleanda (3 Years ago)
Hi Ramya, Did you ever try talking to your husband about your problems. Try explaining to him when he is a good mood. Dont point out his mistakes. Try saying things like, "It would make me happy if you considered opinion etc.," All the best.
chaitanya108 (10 Months ago)
Hi ramya....I understand ur feelings.if u r unable to live with him...then first u do onething....first u start ur job trails later...u try to convience ur parents...if u do these then u will definitely get confidence that u can lead ur life happily...ramya....iam also a housewife...i got married recently..so i know ur feelings...and u try to think positively about ur husband once with a plain mind...if u feel the same although u think positively...then u just proceed what ur heart says..all d best ramya...think wisely and take d decision
pavan631 (6 Months ago)
hiiiiiii ramya this is pavan from hyderabad may i help u plz contact me 918125880518 and 919949884342