hey this is amritha,im a graduate engg.recently married.I tried a lot to marry after getting a settled in a gud job..but due to my parents,finally I was married without having any job.My husband lives in australia and he is very understanding and cooperative,Now Iam looking for a job.My husband is really helping a lot in this matter,but as i dont have any experience in india,im finding it really difficult to find a job...I attended some interviews but not able to get throgh them..I know it will take some time to get the first job in foreign countries butttt...as Iam very studious from my childhood and have very high aspirations and goals about my career.These days Iam really getting disappointed,and cant even imagine my life as a housewife.....so iam asking you all only one question....if i don t get a job..i fell like there is no life...is that correct?or am i thinking in a wrong way...????
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mahija (2 Years ago)
I agree with Swathi. She gave you good suggestion follow that. I think it is not a big problem.It will fill ur life with sweet and romantic experiences.
ajay.r2008 (3 Years ago)
hi..i recently completed my btech..even i was in same situation few months back i disappointed a lot..but wat i felt is that by being lik this there is no way i will be selected..so wat i did is that i watchd myself wer i m going wrong..nd i improvd my self nd wrkd hard for that..now i placed for gud mnc with gud pay..now i m so happy..dnt be disappointed nd stdy urself wer u r going wrong nd try to improve k na.
As u came from chemical stream it may bifficult for u to get job but u try to look for It jobs nd u can also have onlin tutorials nd in that way u try..
brandonsmith (2 Years ago)
dont get disheartened. u ve got an understanding husband. improve ur knowledge abt the subject. try again and again. u will definitely succeed. make it a point that u go for a job. not only for monetary purpose, but also for self satisfaction. all the best. dont frget to let us know as soon as u get a job.
anaenseethise (2 Years ago)
I think its better to move to a career after completing your responsibilities as a wife and a DIL . Why dont you think of having a baby instead and in the meantime also study a useful job oriented course? If all goes well youll be a mom and also in a job of your liking..right? If you postpone motherhood then you may have to quit your much like job which you got after a lot of difficulty...and also motherhood may get delayed very much..I am not scaring you...but I think its wiser this way...good luck!!
shilpaharsh2007 (3 Years ago)
Hi Amritha, Try to upgrade your Indian qualifications by doing an Australian Degree or Diploma.
Life as a housewife is fun. Make some friends. Use this time to do up your house, hone your culinary skills etc.
loorne12 (3 Years ago)
hi amrithavani
had undergone similar dilemma but can suggest you
practical way.
a. after marriage household duties become an important
part in a womans life.
b. if a woman can fulfil the above duties and then
manage time to look for a part time job in the
beginning, it is a practise for her to see if she
can manage both home and office duties easily.
c.if the time management is good then the full time
job can be opted for.
d.and she can try to work and be financially independent
for a few years and then plan a family, for which
one gets married in the first place.
d.whaterver the woman does keep your sense of humour
alive and keep yourself busy in some hobby, or a part
time job, housework and do not dwell too seriously
wasting time and energy but try to be practical and
find out a nice workable solution.
Wishing you a long and happy married life.
ajay.r2008 (3 Years ago)
Being a house wife is v nice..there is no way that u will disappointed u enjy ur life nd look after ur family nd u will hve better time to shre nd spend time with ur family..njy ur life bye
lovedeep (9 Months ago)
u can amritha, u should go to australia. and u and ur husband should live together,
eskay (9 Months ago)
Don't worry dear, do your house wifely duties as best as you can. The Indian govt. is in the process of making it mandatory for ladies to be paid remunerations for doing household work.