Is divorce the solution?
Submited by- ruchii.kumar on 22 Feb, 2011 Relationships
Total mess! These are the first words that come to mind when one thinks of an impending divorce. There are so many things to be attended to, so many details to be worked out, appointments with lawyers, legal complications the list is endless! Easier, dont you think, to try and adjust to each other, forgive and forget, meet partners half way? If people are willing to compromise, they can often find solutions to problems they never thought were possible! Not all dissenting couples will agree. In some cases the differences go real deep and are irreconcilable. There may be instances of adultery, extra marital affairs which may be impossible to forgive. As one of my dear friends philosophically said, when talking about her impending divorce, she spoke of her attitude towards her husband:I love youhate youI cant live without you.
I breathe youI taste youI cant live without you.
I just cant take it any more, this life of solitude.
I guess Im out the door, and now, thank God! Im done with you!>Im not sure if divorce is the solution or the problem. Ladies, any thoughts on the matter?
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anaenseethise (2 Years ago)
Divorce is ok if its only involving and man and woman...not if it is involving a mom and a dad..for its the innocent child or children who suffer in life. I think one must as a women sacrifice a lot for our children and try not to be selfish unless the man involved does not want both the wife and the child.
arpitanadk (2 Years ago)
Divorce and re-marry! Just divorce and lead a life of solitude will be a disaster. Be happy lady. This earth and the universe is made by God for His best creation viz Man & Woman to be happy. Our only job is to remain thankful to God and maintain a Godly ambience on this earth. If this objective is not possible with a particular man, FORGET HIM. There is nothing called meeting the half way mark.LEAVE HIM. May be he will meet a new partner - absolutely legal and moral - full way!
justsexy (11 Months ago)
Women power... show that... prove that..... Divorce Divorce and Divorce again. Take Elizabeth taylor as your GURU. (Am I bit surcastic, sorry about that...)
eskay (10 Months ago)
WOH. AFSANNA. JISE. ANJAAM TAK. LANA. NA. HO MUMKINUSEY. EK. KHUBSURAT. MORD. DE. KAR. CHHORNA. AACHA
vicky198 (4 Months ago)
problems are common in relationships.. they should be solved as much as possible...love marriage problem solution/a>