Total mess! These are the first words that come to mind when one thinks of an impending divorce. There are so many things to be attended to, so many details to be worked out, appointments with lawyers, legal complications the list is endless! Easier, dont you think, to try and adjust to each other, forgive and forget, meet partners half way? If people are willing to compromise, they can often find solutions to problems they never thought were possible! Not all dissenting couples will agree. In some cases the differences go real deep and are irreconcilable. There may be instances of adultery, extra marital affairs which may be impossible to forgive. As one of my dear friends philosophically said, when talking about her impending divorce, she spoke of her attitude towards her husband:I love youhate youI cant live without you.
I breathe youI taste youI cant live without you.
I just cant take it any more, this life of solitude.
I guess Im out the door, and now, thank God! Im done with you!>Im not sure if divorce is the solution or the problem. Ladies, any thoughts on the matter?