Mothers are those silent members of the family, who always play their role efficiently but never ever demand for any recognition. They always remain the same, they might be the mothers of celebrities, or some wealthy business tycoon but most of the mom retain their ordinary motherly attributes and never change their image. Still it should be said that there are some moms who belong to a special class. They are the mothers of the children with different disabilities; it can be physical disability or intellectual disability. It needs real patience to raise such children and the mothers of such children really needs a standing ovation because they face the moment sternly of finding their child struggling with a particular disability and thats when moms become supermoms.
When moms become supermoms, it is not just their ability that makes them take the Herculean job of bringing up the child who does not possess the normal capabilities, but it happens to be their long drawn patience level, the excessive enthusiasm which makes them smile through every moment of hardship. Here are some of the tips for those special moms. In course of your journey, please remember these tips for taking care of the child and they will assist you to great extent.
The Journey Called Motherhood
The sensation of becoming mother for the first time cannot be compared with any other experience. It is a journey for which every girl wait throughout her girlhood and womanhood and prepares herself in due course of time. Bearing a baby in the womb is as happy an event, at the same time it involves lots of danger and frights and tensions. As the baby is born then it is an experience of ecstasy beyond description. This is although the case, when the baby is normal, but if somehow some difference occurs in the baby then the world comes to a stand still in one moment. The abnormalities can be a cleft lip or some physical deformities and these deviations can be corrected by means of normal surgeries. Although there are also some of the physical problems which cannot be rectified and apart from that there are chances of a child being born with autism or intellectual disabilities. In theses cases it is possible to make the child fully normal. So the difficult journey of the mom starts and she goes on with it having a pleasant smile on her lips always.
When You are Alone
The disability of the child can also be very severe and the more difficult it turns out to be, the more it gives rise to a deep anguish and trauma. The worst part is that when a child bears any kind of abnormality then it is only the mother who is been pointed out and the father tin most of the cases does not share even an inch of blame. Therefore it is yet another trait of a supermom to walk past all the raised eyebrows, the conflicts and ugly comments and give her best towards the well being of that child
Experience which is unforgettable
The mother bearing a disable child passes through several emotional and psychological torments but still they survive through all of them and keep their cool for the sake of her child who does not understand anything and never ever can understand. The intellectually disabled baby needs more love and care than the ones who does not bear any disability and they also need something more than that. It lies in the traits of the mom. She should possess confidence, knowledge and the power to surpass every difficulty. Barriers will be there, but they must cope up with it by means of a strong sense of self esteem and self worth.
Others should be helpful
We should always be helpful towards these supermoms and extend hands of co operation to them. The family members should not give them pain by means of burning remarks, discriminations and marginalization. Lastly it should be defined that why they have been referred as supermoms. It is just because, apart from being mothers, they are also, teachers, nurses, ayahs, counselors, playmates, therapists and even caring wives, cooks and daughter-in-laws. So as the children are special, they are special too.